Abandoned as a child?

Some people have asked me lately if I was abandoned as a child as if it would explain a lot about me. . . cold hearted and distant. . . Mom?

On the same subject but not necessarily to do with anything happening in my life right now, sometimes I don't mind getting my heart broken because it reminds me that I really can feel and get attached to people.  Not so cold hearted and distant.  It sounds horrible but it's really not.  Honest.  How does the quote go, "Still, a girl likes to be crossed in love now and then.  It give her something to think of. . . "  It doesn't happen very often, not that I get crossed in love but that I get attached so that being crossed in love is even an option.  If that makes sense.